Excerpted from Me, Too!: It's Time for Preschool, by Marci J. Hanson, Ph.D., & Maria L. Morgan.

Copyright © 2001 by Paul H. Brookes Publishing Co. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.

Remember that inclusive opportunities are your child's right. All parents have to work at ensuring the best possible experiences for their child, and your IFSP or IEP team can help you find preschool options that fit your family's and child's needs. Here are some guidelines:

• Don't be afraid to ask questions about the law, the lingo, or the system. Talk to professionals and other parents to get the information that you need, and use resources provided by family resource centers, parent support groups, and advocacy organizations.
  
  
• Create a file for all of your child's papers and your notes from meetings, and keep track of people with whom you have spoken and their responses to your questions.
  
  
• Be prepared for meetings. Have a list of issues or concerns that you want to discuss, and, if necessary, send reminder notes or make follow-up calls about meetings.
  
  
• State your goals and wishes for your child. You have the right to participate and be heard in the education process.
  
  
• Be aware of the goals, services, and strategies of your child's IEP. If you are not happy with a goal or service or are not sure that it is being carried out, say something.
  
  
• If you have difficulty bringing your child for therapy at a certain time or place, let your child's team know. Appropriate transportation and scheduling need to be made so that your child doesn't miss important appointments.
  
  
• Work with someone who is familiar with your culture and language.
  
  
• Develop relationships and connections with others in your community to exchange ideas and to ensure that your child has the support that she needs to grow and learn.
  

Other parents are also valuable sources of information and advice. Use the strategies and suggestions included in this booklet to get started, and work with other parents and professionals in your community. By working together, we can create positive preschool experiences for all children. Remember, you are the best advocate for your child!

Excerpted from Me Too!: It's Time for Preschool, by Marci J. Hanson, Ph.D., and Maria L. Morgan

Copyright © 2001 by Paul H. Brookes Publishing Co. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.